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Vowless in Love

Is it possible to fall deeper in love with someone just by thinking about them?

I think so.

This week whenever I think about the wedding, or the fact that John will OFFICIALLY be my husband, I get all sparkleyrocketshipgooeybutterflycupcake on the inside!!

Right now I’m waiting for him to get home so I can just jump on him and hold him til forever. (or until he pokes and tickles my sides and I am forced to let go)

I still haven’t written my vows fully.  I keep trying and then I break down crying like an idiot.

No words seem good enough.  I don’t know words descriptive or broad enough to capture what I feel for John and how I will devote my life to him as his wife.  I want to say how excited I am to take this next step in our journey, and how happy I am and how natural it feels to do life with him as my partner.

But I want it to sound, the way it feels when I think about it….does that make sense?


I’m just feelin extra loveydovey and I wish I could get it down on paper.  I don’t wanna wing it on the big day.
Did you write your own vows or have the paster/minister/priest/officiant say them?  How did you write them? Any tips??

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Dani @ OK, Dani

Thursday 7th of October 2010

Thanks for the comments ladies!

Dya that sounds lovely,

Reicha, glad to know I'm not alone

Jessica, cute personalization!

Brit - i love how much he loves me back :)

Dancy - you crybaby! lol that's sweet. I hope i get through my lil paragraph

Chardonnay - i'm scared to look at others, but if it's saturday morning and i'm still at a loss, i totally will.

Kari - you're so right, this is only the beginning...but i still want it to sound awesome haha


Wednesday 6th of October 2010

awwww! that's adorable :]

Our vows were given to us by the venerable. I had no idea what they were going to be since it was a buddhist wedding, but when I heard them I nearly cried. They were asked in like she asks a question, we say yes or no. Was something like will you promise to love him/her with all our heart, will we promise to perform our husband/wife duties as best as we can, we will be there for him/her for love and support. It was amazing :}

yay you!


Wednesday 6th of October 2010

We are planning to write our own vows and even though I still have 7 months, 1 week and 1 day remaining, I have thought about what to write on many occassions and I have came to the conclusion that itis difficult to put how I feel in words...Sorry, I can't offer you any advice or words of wisdom...but just know that you are not alone!


Wednesday 6th of October 2010

Wrote my own in my first marriage... they were SUPER CUTE!! I wrote his too because he didnt want to write them (a sign??...haha) ... but yes...I included things about loving Star Trek and video games...we are it worked.


Wednesday 6th of October 2010

you are too cute words! I'm serious! :) I love how much you love this boy!

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