Today’s Thursday Thoughts are just answering some of the quick-answer questions you sent in….
Why don’t you date black guys?
Because I’m married. *zing*
Have you ever dated a black men?
No way!! *hair toss* They’re so thuggish and aggressive, and they’re all criminals. Plus they just impregnate you and leave you for a white girl!
I get this question a lot and I think I’ve covered it in one of my interracial marriage posts… but…
Of course!! You already know. My exes were black and latino. I know there are some women who date/marry inter-racially intentionally seek out only white or asian or whatever…. IMO that’s a strange way to pick a mate….but that’s not my business (or Kermits). I’m a personality first, looks second type of person. And as long as a man is tall and meaty with broad shoulders, a nice smile, and a strong chin…he could be whatever race.
Do you tell people you have a perm?
I only blogged about it. Don’t go around meeting new people, “Hey I’m Dani…I have a perm. What’s your name?” but if we’re talking about hair of course! NOTE: I’m not ashamed of having a perm and no natural that goes back to perming, whether temporarily like I did or permanently should feel ashamed, or embarrassed or hesitant to admit it either. It’s hair, do with it what you please… who the F cares?
That said…..I’m transitioning LOL….this perm stuff aint for me HAHAHAHHAAA (fun while it lasted)
Are you naturally skinny?
I used to be. ::wall slide:: ::sobs::
Yeah I was always slim growing up and I have slim parents so I don’t think there’s any way I’d ever get really big even if I didn’t enjoy working out. But with the way these pregnancies changed my 30something body….
Naturally skinny no more… it requires effort for me to stay in shape. 🙁
Why don’t you do youtube videos of your family?
I tried it…..
I know I should do more since people are always asking for them. I will have to ambush John and make him do some…
Does John help with the kids?
Of course. Although when it comes to the kids I’m definitely Obama and he’s Biden.
What does John think about the problems in Ferguson?
“problems in Ferguson” though? It’s not just a problem in Ferguson. I know you know that….
And John actually posted his response on the post I did about Ferguson on Tuesday – Check the comments!
2 More things about this:
1. I got a question that I THINK was asking me if John and I talk about racial issues, the answer is yes of course. (If that’s not what you were trying to ask, please resend the question a lilbit clearer. sorry.)
2. The person who asked the question about my feelings on Ferguson (that sparked Tuesday’s post) wrote back and clarified her question…I kinda understand where she was coming from, so I’m glad I didn’t respond with all the snark I was going to….
That’s it for now, feel free to keep the questions coming. I have so much content to post because of you all. Thank you SO much.
I have to get to packing and cleaning up this house. Family Reunion time…I’ll try to remember to take pics!