You think he’s being sweet:
But when you look closely:

He’s trying to rip the bear to shreds!!!!
He’s SCARY!!
But I think I’ll keep him anyway.
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You think he’s being sweet:
But when you look closely:

He’s trying to rip the bear to shreds!!!!
He’s SCARY!!
But I think I’ll keep him anyway.
I love playing with my son, and I know that even though I’ll be getting slower as the years go by, I’m going to want to continue playing with him and being active with him as much as possible.
He already watches me jump around doing Jillian Michael’s dvds, and Insanity workouts. And he gets his workout in by running in circles around me chomping on my towel as I do the exercises. John and I know how important it is for him to not only have playtime with us, but also see us being active and doing healthy things independently. We ain’t raisin’ no couch potato!

Debra Cohen
45
Long Island, NY
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I own a Homeowner Referral Network (HRN) business that pre-screens and refers local home improvement cotnractors. Contractors pay a pre-negotiated commission for work secured and my service is free to homeowners.
I’ve also helped 300+ other women launch HRN businesses like mine nationwide.
Home Remedies of NY, Inc.
www.hrnbiz.com
My husband and I had just purchased our first house and–like many homeowners– we were struggling to find reliable home improvement contractors. When I finally found a responsible contractor, I felt compelled to share his name with other homeowners in our community. That was my “Aha!” moment and I realized that if we faced this challenge then other homeowners must as well. So, I decided to try to create a business to fill this need in our community.
I’m a networker by nature and love renovating and decorating so this business really seemed like a natural fit for me because it capitalized on my talents and what I loved to do.
Once my business took off, I was approached by other entrepreneurs/moms who were interested in starting a business like mine in their area so I wrote The Complete Guide To Owning And Operating A Successful Homeowner Referral Network©– a Business Manual that documents all of the “how to’s” of launching an HRN. I packaged it with forms, website, consultation time, etc.other moms start HRN businesses. There are now more than 300 operating nationwide and a few internationally.
I get up at 6 and get an hour of two of work done before my kids leave for school.. I generally check my calendar for jobs pending, follow up with contractors before they leave for the day and respond to e-mail inquiries.
I take a break to help get my kids off in the morning and spend an hour at the gym. From about 11-2 I’m generally in my office responding to e-mails and phone calls. About 90% of my work is done online or by phone. (If I’m out of the office for longer than an hour, I call-forward my business line to my cell.)
I generally come back to my office in the evenings after dinner and finish up work.
I hired a few contractors from my network and converted our front porch into my office. The exposed stone is the exterior chimney of our Tudor. And, one of my cabinet makers built the custom wrap around desk.
My old office was in the basement next to my children’s playroom so that I could watch them while I worked.
So many! No commute, no stockings, flexibility, sense of fulfilment, time with my family, financial independence….
One of the cons for me is that, since I work from home, my work is always there. Sometimes I feel like I can’t escape it especially on the weekends.
And some days, when I’m feeling a bit uninspired, it would be nice to just get a paycheck!
As a mompreneur, you have to wear a lot of different hats and it’s impossible to be an expert at everything.In order to work as efficiently, I outsource all of the periphery services associated with my business. I have a virtual assistant, web designer, accountant, software developer, etc. Having experts handle these jobs frees me up to focus on the most important aspects of my business.
And, regardless of how busy I am, my family is my priority–we eat dinner together every night and I never miss a sporting event or after school activitiy. I think I work more efficiently during the day because I know that my family will come first after 3pm.
I also go to the gym every day which is my time to completely relax and do something for myself.
1. Identify your talent and make it the cornerstone of your business.
2. Be passionate about your product or service.
3. Be disciplined with your time and don’t get distracted by other responsibilities.
I wish I knew to not try and handle everything on my own. I wasted valuable hours and time on details that could have been efficiently handled by a professional. That’s one of the reasons I decided to write the HRN Business Manual–so that I could save other moms from making some of the mistakes that I made and give them a roadmap to follow.
Before you decide to launch a business from home, do an honest self examination. Ask yourself what your strengths and weaknesses are, what you’re willing to invest personally and financially and what you hope to gain from your new business? Many women spend a lot of time doing market research and evaluating the competition but you should also evaluate yourself before starting to work from home.
There’s a lot of technology out there today that makes operating a home based business more efficient than ever before. While I’m not a technological person, I do think using WordPress to create and update my website is a breeze. Also, autoresponder software allows you communicate with clients on a regular basis. And, the contact management software I created for my business, HRNMS©, is web based so I can work from any location
I’m constantly trying to expand and improve my business model to help other HRN owners grow their businesses. Right now, I’m looking into creating a strategic relationship with a national real estate firm so that we can offer the HRN model as the concierge arm of their business.
[Being an entrepremom] has afforded me an ideal balance between my career and my family. I think it’s also made me a better mother because I’m happy and fulfilled!

Do you use rewards cards? Have you ever used one for gas? You already know I try to find the best deals on everything. And with gas prices what they are, and John having to drive in and out of NYC every day for work, it’s a big expense. He’s already started taking the train on certain days, but I signed up for the Fuel Rewards Network™ program, or FRN™ program, to help out a little more.
We already have rewards cards for grocery and drug stores we frequent, but never had one for gas. I was unsure of how it would work out and if the savings would be significant at all, but it’s really easy and can save John a lot at the pump! If you have a travel benefits credit card, it kinda works in a similar way, in that everything you purchase (whether at Shell, or online or at other stores) gives you rewards. Instead of points towards travel like on other cards, this gets redeemed for money off per gallon of gas!
You can also link the FRN Card to your other cards, for example, link it to your local participating grocery store card and it will automatically apply the purchases to your FRN Card to be redeemed for savings on gas! You don’t have to do anything else. I love when programs just make it easy for me to save money. You can get rewards from dining out and (my fave) shopping online too! When shopping online you get more rewards faster, because some stores give you 5x or 10x bonus rewards for shopping with them.
On average, members are saving $0.31 per gallon on fuel at Shell through the Fuel Rewards Network program (according to fuelrewards.com on 5/6/13). That adds up! And that’s just the average; you can save much more, depending on what your habits are. You can sign up at any Shell station, or you can be lazy like me and sign up online at FuelRewards.com to just pick up at the Shell station (or lazier still, have your card and membership info mailed to you after signing up online.)
We’re driving down to Baltimore for our cruise next month and it’s my goal to fill up before we leave and pay like zero cents for gas! (Okay, okay, not zero cents…but a really low price so John can be surprised.) Sign up at FuelRewards.com and check out the FRN program page on Facebook: HERE as well.
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Oh man, what a day yesterday. We went to the hospital after Roey’s fever stayed at 102.8 and refused to respond to meds all morning/afternoon. It was our first scare. He looked so worn out, and his nose was all snotty and he threw a fit (read: fought me hard) when I tried to wipe him. He was not himself at all. He was quiet, slow, and when he tried to walk he looked like a drunken sailor staggering ashore. Most noticeably, he wouldn’t eat! This kid eats every and anything, so I knew something was up.
We took him in and they gave him motrin after a very unfortunate rectal temperature check.(um, it’s 2013, can we find a better way please?!) and gave him chest Xrays after the longest chest stethescoping session ever. She literally was listening to him breathe for like 76 days, while he squirmed and looked at me like “MAMAAAA SAVE MEEEE”
The chest Xray showed some stuff in his lungs and they said he had bronchiopneumonia, and gave us scripts for him, and told me what to do and watch out for like: fever not responding, breathing from tummy not chest, walking like a drunken sailor, vomiting for days, no pee, no snot, and…. no tears.
Fast forward to 5:00 this morning…I wake up and he’s crying. NO TEARS. I was like OMG we have to take him to the hospital. But then I remember that the child is an academy award winning actor and will just yellcry until I get him sans tears all the time.
So I truly (and if you repeat this I will deny deny deny) sat petrified at his crib side, watching him yellcry at me pondering if maybe I should pinch him or flick him or something to see if real tears come.
I was weighing the pros and cons like, well, if no tears come then he’s truly dehydrated and we MUST go to the hospital so I’d really be saving his life by pinching him. Buuutt….if he’s just fake yellcrying and tears come then I’ll scar him for life, leading him to never trust me or other women again in the future and have difficulty forming relationships with others.
(yes. I seriously went there.)
Oh what to do what to do.
I decided to hold off on hurting the baby and checked his diaper to see if he’d peed recently. He had peed, but his diaper was 100% dry (oh, sidebar: Parent’s choice Overnight Diapers from Walmart are GREAT!) so I couldn’t tell how long ago he had done it.
We nursed, and he took both breasts, then I offered him his sippy cup of water and he drank a little of that too. I noticed snot and some drool afterward so I figured I didn’t need to pinch the child. His fever is much lower this morning so I’m going to keep monitoring him and offering him milk and his water since he’s on a hunger strike.
This was our first scary sick baby thing. I hope these types of days are veeery few and far between.
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