Adios April / Hola May

It’s freakin MAY tomorrow! April was a surprising month! I went from working mom to be to stay at home wife and mama to be.  John changed jobs and is now bringing in way more bacon than before. We see each other more now which is great.  Our home life was totally revamped!  Happily, my work at home opportunities are popping up so my severence money can just be saved.  We’re settling in to the new apartment and I must say…I feel like it’s such a luxury having my washer/dryer. It’s truly the best part of the apartment lol.

With my Goals for April, I did pretty good!!

Work with John on birth partner stuff – he’s been reading his books!  We talk about our plans for the birth. It’s so scary and exciting.

Fully unpack and settle into apartment – the only thing really left to unpack is the closet….it’s a wreck.  And our laundryroom/storage/office is kind of a train wreck as well….for now.  Otherwise we’re unpacked and settled in.

Enjoy my baby shower – I did, it was awesome. My aunts from Florida flew in to surprise me!  I was so overwhelmed.  Lots of crying.  We had some laughs, good food, lots of alcohol (water for me), and everyone mingled and the families mixed and everyone got along… it was just perfect! If you’re a FB friend the pics are up there.  A few random pics:

Celebrate John’s birthday – We did and it was awesome too!  We went to Bobby Flay’s restaurant Mesa Grill and it was deeeeelicious.  When we went to dinner for John’s birthday last year I had the servers surprise him by bringing out one of every dessert instead of bringing the dessert menu.  The desserts weren’t as inviting at this restaurant so I asked our server to bring a candle in whatever John ordered.  Of course John didn’t make it easy, instead of cake or pie, he ordered churros! Not candle friendly, but the staff made it work!

Get Embry’s nursery basically together – Starting to come together.  John put the dresser and crib together, and I started making some art for the walls.  I’ve got a lot more to do. Sadly right now the room is chock full of boxes of “stuff” we received at the shower.  I’ve got tons of organizing to do.  Here are a couple of the pieces for the wall.  We bought wooden letters to make the name sign too!

I’ll do a full post once the room is together.

Have maternity photos taken – we did this today!! It was wonderful.  My good friend Hector of Hydra Multimedia took the photos for us.  We got the silhouette shots I wanted, and some lovey dovey feeling photos of John and I.  And John was a trooper!  I wish I could put up some teaser pics for ya, but hector would kill me if I posted unedited pics but I’ll get them up soon!

Practice hypnobabies – I’ve been listening to it, but honestly not as consistently as I should have. It’s reeeally relaxing.

Get a B or better in my last class – Done.

Rest a lot, drink a lot, try to avoid cramping – Done!  Not having to get up early and schlepp to the city to work all day really leaves lots of time to rest! :)

Goals for May:

  • get hospital bag packed
  • make sure john finishes reading the second book
  • finish Embry’s room
  • get the closet together
  • decorate apt walls
  • make birth plan
  • rest up
  • find pediatrician
  • order the rest of the needed items for Embry
  • make new budget and stick to it

There are just 5 weeks (give or take) until my little man makes his appearance.  I’ve never been more psyched for something in my entire life.  I think May is going to be a great month!!

How did you do with your April goals?  What are your goals for May?

Happy Birthday John!!

Wishing the happiest birthday to my best friend, lover, partner, co-D, and husband!!

I love you so very much!

(We’re totally going to break that glider under the weight of both of us haha)

Bday Pics coming next week.  He’s working all day today so we won’t get to celebrate until tomorrow.

Third Trimester Love Hate Relationship

I’m of two minds with regard to this damn 3rd trimester.

The good:

  • Closer to meeting Embry

The bad:

  • Every
  • Thing
  • Else!

That’s all I have to say.

 

34 Weeks Pregnant!

How Far Along? 34 Weeks!! Just 6 (ish) weeks to go!

Symptoms: Backaches, Heartburn like crazy, Insane emotions

Total Weight Gain: 26 lbs!! It’s surreal seeing these numbers on the scale.

Maternity Clothes:  Now that I’m home I live in John’s old scrubs and T shirts but wear my cute maternity clothes when I leave the house.

Stretch Marks: Not yet, fingers crossed.  But today I learned that you can get them post-baby once you’re shrinking back down to size :(

Sleep: It’s starting to get worse and worse.

Food Cravings: pancakes, yoplait whips, ice cream, mango anything, cereal all day, chex mix, mmm

Best Moment This Week: Having Embry’s baby shower and getting surprised by my 2 aunts from Florida who I totally didn’t expect to see!

Movement: He’s moving some, less punching, more stretching.

Labor Signs: The braxton hicks contractions every now and then, but nothing else. 

Belly Button In Or Out? Out, and sometimes it’s firm and sometimes it’s mashable…so weird.

What I Miss:  I miss sleeping through the night.  I guess I’m going to miss that for a LONG time. I also miss not feeling like a humongous slow aminal. (yes, aminal)

What I Am Looking Forward To: Still haven’t taken my maternity pics. I’ll try to get on that.  I’m looking forward to getting Embry’s room set up now that John has painted and is starting to put things together. 

Milestones: I made it through the shower alive. ;) Started on my birth plan too!

Weekly Wisdom: Sleep as much as you can.  Don’t feel guilty for going slow.

Thoughts: I am not a fan of the third trimester. I’m so tired, unwieldy, and so emotional. And I’m SO hungry all the time.  My belly feels like it’s going to burst but I’ll still want more and more food.  I had the best time washing all of Embry’s clothes.  Laundry will never be as fun as it was yesterday, looking at all the teeny tiny items he received.  I had a breakdown over some newborn socks. ::sigh::

Any advice for me at this stage in pregnancy?

Losing Yourself to Motherhood

My lil man’s baby shower was this Saturday (I’ll post on that when I get some pics to show ya) and at the party I was told “Be prepared to say bye to Dani. You’re going to lose your identity once he gets here and you’ll just be Mommy.”

This person went on to tell me how I’ll go X amount of time without a shower, walk around in vomitty clothes, never get a chance to eat or sleep, not take care of myself (brush teeth, comb hair), etc…etc…

I know she wasn’t being a “hater” or coming from a negative place because this is what she went through when her kids were born.  I do feel she was sincerely trying to just let me know what (she feels) I’m in for.

However….

I don’t think that’s going to be me.  I really don’t.

Am I naive?

I know it’s going to be HARD work after bringing baby home from the hospital, I know I’ll be sleepless in seattle for a while and have a lot to adjust to.  After the first couple months I’m sure I’ll have my act together for the most part and be able to do my mommy duties, my home duties, my biz duties and still be Dani.  I don’t think there would be a time where I wouldn’t just change my T-shirt if it was barfed on or yank my hair up into a bun if I was looking raggedy.

Am I being realistic?

Did you “lose yourself” to motherhood?

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